If you’re reading this it means that you’re either a new person here who stumbled on my internet safe space, or you’re one of my core readers, with me from the start (thanks!). For the last few months I’ve been toiling over what I consider my main work; that is my...
I belong to that weird sub-generation that doesn’t really have a good name. I was born in 1981, so I’m not GenX, but I graduated from high school in 1999, so I’m not a millennial either. My kids are GenZ, although my 18-year-old son has just informed me that his...
an adapted excerpt from Every Little Thing, the upcoming book from Melanie Makovsky Sometimes I am tenacious, and I press forward relentlessly in pursuit of what I want, determined to achieve it. Other times, however, I am stubborn, so dead set on following through on...
How is it, Lord, that tears so wet, So clear upon my face, Can burn my skin and sting my cheeks, Can chafe and scar and bind my heart, Can start an avalanche of long-forgotten mud, Once dried and caked but now flowing down, Down the...
Maybe I’m fooling myself, but I don’t think I was a procrastinator in my younger years. If anything, I was always in a hurry to get to the next thing. When I was a kid I admired the teenaged girls who worked for my parents’ business, and I always wanted to follow them...
When I met my husband in the late summer of 1999 I knew him to be a high school music teacher who had, only days before, relocated back to his hometown. When I agreed to meet him at a local family restaurant for what would be our first date, however, I arrived to find...
Recovering from a traumatic experience is a highly subjective process that is different for everyone, and it is a process that you will go through constantly throughout a lifetime. While every one of us wants to heal and be whole again after a sudden terrible event,...
I wrote this post in 2016 on my first blog, The Extra Rib. This reflection on the changing phases of parenting as a child grows was written when my daughter, Ida, was in 6th grade. Ida graduated from high school this past year, 2022, and she continues to learn in...
a story by Melanie Makovsky January 1994 The Sign, Ace of Base We’re sitting here in English diagramming sentences, and everyone has to participate. It’s the most boring activity ever, yet I am incredibly nervous. Everyone has to participate, and we are...
by Melanie Makovsky December 1994 Never Is A Promise, Fiona Apple Christmas is a joke this year, and not the funny kind. It is a farce. We are sitting here in our pajamas opening presents as if it’s a normal Christmas, a typical Christmas, when it is anything...
Melanie Makovsky has seen trauma turn into triumph through the lens of faithfulness. By examining hardships under the light of God's grace and love, she's learned to value suffering and loss as catalysts for deepening faith and discovering simple, everyday beauty.
The content presented on this site is based on my personal experience. I am not a mental health professional and this content is not to be considered a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis or treatment.
